Paul Barber: My Work
I see our life as a flower; a bud --> full bloom in a lifetime.
Coaching is the set of tools for the bud - you - to truly blossom: radiant, colourful, sturdy, productive, absorbing the sun’s energy, withstanding the wind and the rain.
Your coach stands with you, holding the tool kit for a powerful life, and calls you forth to your greater self.
You have choices. You can be just another bud in a large bouquet, or, you can stand proudly in a single bud vase. Where are you now? You can be a single petal flower with a short life, or you can be many-petaled bloom that takes years to unfold and expose your beauty. YOU have choices! Those choices can be empowered thru coaching.
Your coach will be there to:
- add more water with powerful questions;
- help you shed those leaves that no longer support you;
- keep facing the rising sun energy of life;
- be the container that holds you up when times get rough;
- love you even if all your petals aren’t perfect...
We - you and I - get to design how we will work together so your life is full, rewarding, feels complete, gifted, surprising, balanced, connected with significant others, in harmony with Spirit, grounded with Mother Earth, connected with your own body and feelings ... (add your own desires here)
Yes, I meet you where you are. We check in. What’s going on? What do you want to change? What would make this a better place for you? What would that look like? How will you get there? What else?
Possible coaching starting points: retirement, coming out to self/others, still coming out, sexual skills and practices, being a gay leader, drop the gay identifier I sexually engage with men sometimes, looking for a significant other, how to handle a long-tern relationship ...
If you are ready for change NOW, what will you do?
Call or email me. I’ll explain how we get started. YOU are worth it.

