About Me...

Counsellor - Coach - Bodyworker

Relationship Skills and Practices

Gay Men and Male Couples

 For five years I was trained and groomed as a counsellor and a facilitator of counselling groups. As a result of this training experience with hundreds of clients, I have been instrumental in developing and delivering hundreds of hours of counselling both for individuals, couples and groups. I further trained and did a certification in Life Skills Coaching. This training broadened and expanded my practice to include coaching as well as counselling. As a perpetual student I have done subsequent training and expanded my learning with the Body Electric School. The three elements of Counselling, Coaching and Bodywork combine to create a rich and rewarding experience in the personal growth work that I offer.

Who I am as a man is as important to me as how and what I have been trained to deliver. I live my life in Toronto. I am a family man in that I constantly maintain and work on my relationship with my family, ensuring that I am closely connected to them and that they are an integral part of my life. I do the same with my partner of more than 35 years. It is my job and my responsibility to ensure that Tony and I are as connected and together as is possible.

I have been in a relationship with my partner Tony since the brilliant summer of 1974. I have since 2000, been bringing my skill and my passion for relationship and relatedness to my counselling and coaching practice.

My consciousness in my relationship began in a time of crisis in the 25th year of my relationship. Having worked through some of the tough issues I a now more than 50 years old and in a partnership and marriage that is stronger than ever. I really, really do love Canada. Tony and I are finally married!. We celebrated our marriage on May 22, of 2005, after meeting and coming together in 1974.

As a man I bring all of my experience and history to the forum of same sex relationship counselling and coaching gay men and erotic bodywork. As a Counsellor, a Coach and a Bodyworker I offer my clients my knowledge and my dedication to working through the hard times and celebrating the growing times. Working with problems, breaking them down and creating new and sometimes very surprising outcomes. Creating safety and a forum for letting go and letting be as one finds oneself and sets a path for growth.

I am very proud and honoured to support same sex marriage and to support all couples in creating, safer, saner and more secure loving relationships.

I am committed and dedicated to bring more peace and consciousness to the world through erotic awareness. Mentoring and modeling new ways of being in community for men of all types. Fostering erotic education and personal growth work through physical, mental, emotional, erotic and spiritual journeys making the way for hope and enlightenment one man at a time.

To book an introductory session or if you would like more information about any aspect of who I am, my background, my training or the services I offer, please feel free to email me at: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

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